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Some answers to your Questions... We understand that you will have many questions on your mind. Here are the answers to our most commonly asked questions. What About Adoption? Adoption has the potential to be a life-affirming choice for everyone involved. A woman can gain great peace of mind knowing she has kept her future intact and has provided a future for her child. Today's adoption looks much different than in the past. The needs of the pregnant woman are given top priority in the adoption process. It is important to remember that she may explore the option of adoption without committing to an adoption plan. If you are considering adoption, you will be given the opportunity to: *Review profiles of potential adoptive families *Interview prospective parents *Choose the family you believe is best for your child In addition, expenses related to your pregnancy are covered. Women who choose adoption do so out of great love for their child. They want the very best for the child and may not be able to provide the emotional or financial stability that a child needs.
You may wonder what would happen if there is a chance your child could have birth defects due to drug and/or alcohol use...your doctor may be able to assess whether your child is experiencing any negative effects of drug or alcohol abuse. There are hundreds of couples willing to adopt children with special needs of all kinds, whether they are drug-related or not.
Will you be sad about this decision for the rest of your life? While you will never forget about your child, or the decision you made to place your child in adoption, your feelings about the adoption will change as you go through the healing process. There may be sadness in your heart about not having your child with you, but you will find yourself being comforted knowing that your child is being well taken care of, and that you did what was best for yourself and your child Remember, you can give your child something no one else can .......life!! The greatest gift of all! What About Abortion? If you are pregnant you may be wondering if abortion is right for you. Abortion is most frequently done as a surgical procedure. In early pregnancy, it is a relatively quick process. However, as with any surgery, there are risks. We can talk with you about the methods and risks of abortion. In addition, the emotional impact of abortion is an important factor to consider. A woman's beliefs about pregnancy, abortion and religion affect her perspective following abortion. It is critical that a woman has the support and time she needs to sort through all of her questions. While there may be a sense of urgency to make a decision quickly, it is well worth the effort to talk with someone first. We are available to talk 24 hours a day. What About Miscarriage? According to a medical researchers recordings... approximately 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. A miscarriage happens when a woman's body cannot sustain a pregnancy. In a miscarriage, a woman will have cramping and bleeding. Eventually, her body will expel the fetus. Occasionally surgery is recommended. We may be able to tell with ultrasound if you are at risk for having a miscarriage. That's important to know before you go through a surgical procedure like abortion. How long will the appointment take? Allow one hour for the initial appointment. How much do you charge? All of our services are free of charge including pregnancy tests, ultrasounds to confirm viability of the pregnancy, and childbirth and parenting information. Will I need to bring anything with me? If you are scheduled for a pregnancy test, you will not need to bring anything with you. We will get a urine speciman from you after you arrive. If you've seen a doctor or had your pregnancy confirmed already, we may not have to repeat the test. Will my mom find out? No, all of our services are confidential. We will not share information with anyone, including your parents. If a parent calls or comes by the clinic, we will not confirm any information about you coming to the clinic, unless we have your permission to do so. Can I bring my boyfriend or friend with me? Yes, you can bring your boyfriend or friend with you to the clinic. We will talk with you one-on-one in the counseling room, but your boyfriend or friend will be able to join you in the counseling room later if you want.
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